Just to clarify, moving my blog had nothing to do with family. It had to do with my husband's past, and my gut feeling that I was revealing too much of who we were and might be found by someone who would still like to hurt him. I intend to keep this one more anonymous, although I dislike anonymity. Even though I was using a pen name, it was one connected to his family, so the person would certainly have recognized it.
There's a lot I want to say about it, but the time isn't right. A lot of it is spiritual and I think he knows when I'm talking about him. Maybe later I will feel safe, but I may never want to put it out in cyberspace.